Create a happy life :)

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You can see that big and carefree smile of these kids. Remind you of your childhood? You miss your childhood? Yeah I also do. Because it was time we had to just play and learn from surroundings. We had no stress, no responsibilities and no race where we need to prove our self.

You must all be struggling for job or studies or maybe to prove yourself in your field. Some of you might be at a good position but still you are not that happy as you were in childhood. Somewhere we all are working for our dreams or a better life. Some with more dedication, some with fast pace, some with slow pace, some with hard work, some with smart work. We all are doing our part. Even I am. But then sometimes it’s not enough, we need to do more. More and more each day.

What we lack is motivation. Yeah when someone gives us a lecture to work hard and motivates us we are motivated and there work is done. But then we could not stand by it for long. We need more motivation after regular intervals. But then why? Can’t we motivate ourself for the thing which will happen for our benefit only. Stay motivated guys. There are many motivating videos on youtube or read good blogs. People will help you, it’s you who need to keep your distractions and laziness aside to prove people who invoke you or fulfill the needs of your wishes.

Another thing what is a big challenge for us teenagers is that we are involved in lot of emotional ups and downs which is a big distraction. I agree emotional attachments are important and Even I am the person who is attached to so many people who are very important to me. But if those attachments start giving you pain or negativity and keep holding you then you have to take a step for yourself or the person who matter to you. Either leave the attachment or prepare yourself to not let the negativity to destroy you.

I see people having emotional swings, feelingless days and many complex behavior. They teach us a lot but we have to keep a check on them so that they don’t have a bad impact on our career or future. What would be life if you would stay feelingless for a long period like 5 years or full life?

Work on yourself. Take a stand for yourself and fight with negativity. Work hard for your dreams and happy life. Many books say

“There is nothing you can do if you make your mind and work hard in right direction”.

You might be thinking it is not related to the pic at all, but at this point what I ca see in the eyes of those kids are dreams as we had in our childhood. My family members always say “If you study hard then dear your 2 younger sisters will get inspired by you and they will also work for a good and somewhere I believe this is true because our surroundings matter. The difference between IIT, IIM and some private college is that all students in top colleges study hard and get inspired by peers. They have big dreams and work for them whereas in private colleges or not so good colleges you might most of the students don’t work hard, have no dreams and only want the degree. Surroundings matter. If we don’t give up on our dreams, if we don’t work hard to contribute in growth of our country these kids will loose their carefree smile when they come in teenage. If we inspire them, they will also keep on having the happiness inside them.

Moreover if we stand for ourself we will regain the same carefree happiness as we had in our childhood. Work hard, live for your dreams and keep yourself and thousands of happy directly or indirectly by creating a good life for yourself and others.

Daily Prompt: Fortune That Everyone has

Fortune which is known as luck, destiny is well known among people. You could always hear people using luck as a reason of their achievement or disappointment.

When someone crack an interview saying “Oh yeah! It was a luckyย  day”.

When a child looses in a race, his friend saying “Its okay. Today was your bad luck. Better luck next time.”

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People in the morning read newspaper where fortune teller tells about how their day will go.

And Sometimes when something bad or good is going to happen…. people believe that this was written in their destiny.

You know What I being an optimist believe?

Fortune is the life we are living. Yeah we are fortunate enough to have a life where we can experience so much, feel so many feelings, listen to different voices, see the nature and everything in world, Smell. Even if any person don’t have these senses, He got his life to make it worth living.

I believe that Everything happens for a reason that is definitely GOOD. You can call it destiny or fortune. But even if things are looking bad to you… just wait, have patience to see that whatever happens for good for you.

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Be fortunate of your life, parents, family, friends and people. Express your gratitude and love towards them… And see the magic of happiness inside you and your life.

Yeah like Fortune cookies you are your destiny. It is a faith or hope of a better tomorrow. So keep your faith in destiny and smile each day for how much lucky you are of what you have! Else what you want you achieve it by hard work. and failure…. Don’t forget failure is first step of success.

So be happy.

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Everyone is Fortunate enough to have this life and this day. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

 

 

 

 

via Daily Prompt: Fortune

The book of life <3

We all have a blank book of our life, we are all writers in this world and our actions are our words!

Some just keep on writing as their life goes on, and some make it creative by extraordinary happiness and success! Its upon you how to write it making it as creative to be interesting!ย 

Some will come in your as guest writers, some will come whose memories will become your words, some will come as inspirational quotes, some as motivational learnings and some bad experiences! But its all on you, how you percieve and manage your actions cause even “a good story contains a happy ending which is the outcome of positive attitude”!

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Life is all yours, be positive, be creative! Help others, give happiness and share sorrows! Make your book an inspiration for yours and others as well! Cause life is a single opportunity, dont waste being negative when you have all the capabilities!ย 

Deal the negativity of life!!! :)

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It’s surprising to see that  time is changed. Negative emotions such as jealousy, revenge, pains took control over people. Most of the people are not happy, forgot to laugh!!! They lost all the hopes from their lives!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ And it’s really sad watching their negativities or the pain they had in past, controlling and resisting them to have a happy life!!!

They do not understand that they are
wrong!!! Their is positivity in everyone’s life!!! Even if you had a bad past, you can have a beautiful future by facing your pains in the present! See around, if the world is full of negativity; then we have nature, a beautiful nature, our God, good people and the close ones who are the proof of positivity! If not, look at your parents, they sacrificed so many things, only for your happiness!! And you don’t see positivity in life.? .. Huh.. Strange!!

Someone said-

“Time don’t heal anything, it just give you strength to face life and let go off your pains”.

But dear, time can make you strong only when you are ready for it!!! If you keep on holding your pains or sadness how will you move ahead to happiness?

Every person faces problems in life!! You might think your were very big in comparison to others, but that’s wrong!! Problems aren’t bigger than you… Cummon!!! You know negativity is very small in comparison to the powers of positivity!!! But yes negativity sticks easily and it become helpless if you face them, just like “fear run away when you run towards to face them”!!! Try to be happy in small things, Small moments and live your life to the fullest!! Show your past that you are stronger than it!!! Because they are many people who had struggled more than you and are living a happy life, take inspiration from them!!! If you want ask me I will help you!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Believe in you, love yourself, trust God and leave the pains and accept positivity!!!! Help yourself… Because

” Even God help those who help themselves ” ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

The lesson for life

Before starting the blog i was really confused, and i have so many doubts in my mind, but then i learned a lesson for life. Now i do have a facebook page too.

I love to express my feelings by writing when i didnt get anyone around to share them. One more reason behind it is I love to read them again and again, that makes me feel good! And when my friends got time.. I shared them whatever i wrote..! They encouraged me to take an initiative to start writing on a regular basis… By starting a blog, or articles in magazine etc.

But before taking an initiative i had so many questions…
such as writing down feelings is easy, anyone in this world can do it..? There are many writers who write on similar topics as i do, then why should i? There as so many good writers then me..then why? I am not even professional, why would people love to read me?

As i was not confident about my writings then how can my readers will have interest?

I asked my friends these questions to clear my doubts and what i learnt is a lifetime lesson!

” Though everyone writes on the same topics, still every writer has their own different skills. What a writer writes easily describe himself, thats why as each and every person is different their writings have different touch. Ana what you write comes directly from your heart which makes them interesting. You writeย out of your experience which people can easily relate. If people think like you and wont take initiative for their talent, this world will loose such a talent. If you have many competitors this doesn’t mean you will quit. And if you are not professional then you can be.. by practising it, writing a lot! No one is born perfect. Go and explore your real self don’t stop it. Trying is better than failing. “

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This was the lesson i learnt and can be applied anywhere in life. You need to take an initiative and try it before quiting in the fear of failing. If you are ready to make efforts, you cannot fail. I am now confident about whatever i write because i know it is my talent which is my self and i am happy that i didn’t fear of failing and tried it.

as a famous quote says

” You will never fail until you decide to stop trying “mistakes-proof-of-trying

Loving YOURSELF! <3

For every person in this world they are the most important person of their life. But sometimes they forget their self in the busy world.

Today Technology has made our lives very easy. With the advancement in modern lifestyle people automatically adapted it. Now a days at one side people are too busy doing their work, making a way out for their success and on the other side people are spending too much time using advance technology such as facebook, watsapp or enjoying with their friends. They are enjoying their life or working for their future, which every1 must do.. But yet they are lost somewhere in their busy life or around a group of people.

Every human being should love himself as he is the most important for him. In the world a person face many negative and positive feelings, so he should be standing their with him during those phases.

Is it stupidity? It is obvious that a person is always there with him? Then what am i trying to say?

A person should be his own best friend, because there are alot of times in life that they feel alone. They feel that they are nowhere, lost in the complexity of life. No one is yours and you need love in those tough phases.

Human nature is complex. It needs alot of love, support and care to be happy. They like encouragement by others. But what if no one is there to fulfil your these desires? Do you think it is justified to go in a depression?

No. First of all loving ourself is the best thing we can do to us. Life is all ours, we cannot afford to depend on other people to love us or we cannot hurt us if no one loves us.

But how will we love us?

Its too easy to be your own best friend. Take time out for you, talk to yourself, share your feelings, take yourself out. We find it too complex to talk to ourself? We would look foolish!!!!!!

But yes we can write down our feelings as today technology generated a habbit of writing in us (through chats or emails).
Encourage yourself, motivate, award, show care. It might sound illogical but yes its true.

Human beings are for love. If people cant even love themselves, how will they love others? Its really earning a lot of happiness when you are your best friend. It is very essential to have a self analysis when you are busy and avoiding yourself.

TRY IT.. ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

“Loving others is a nice feeling but loving YOURSELF is awesome. “