Create a happy life :)

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You can see that big and carefree smile of these kids. Remind you of your childhood? You miss your childhood? Yeah I also do. Because it was time we had to just play and learn from surroundings. We had no stress, no responsibilities and no race where we need to prove our self.

You must all be struggling for job or studies or maybe to prove yourself in your field. Some of you might be at a good position but still you are not that happy as you were in childhood. Somewhere we all are working for our dreams or a better life. Some with more dedication, some with fast pace, some with slow pace, some with hard work, some with smart work. We all are doing our part. Even I am. But then sometimes it’s not enough, we need to do more. More and more each day.

What we lack is motivation. Yeah when someone gives us a lecture to work hard and motivates us we are motivated and there work is done. But then we could not stand by it for long. We need more motivation after regular intervals. But then why? Can’t we motivate ourself for the thing which will happen for our benefit only. Stay motivated guys. There are many motivating videos on youtube or read good blogs. People will help you, it’s you who need to keep your distractions and laziness aside to prove people who invoke you or fulfill the needs of your wishes.

Another thing what is a big challenge for us teenagers is that we are involved in lot of emotional ups and downs which is a big distraction. I agree emotional attachments are important and Even I am the person who is attached to so many people who are very important to me. But if those attachments start giving you pain or negativity and keep holding you then you have to take a step for yourself or the person who matter to you. Either leave the attachment or prepare yourself to not let the negativity to destroy you.

I see people having emotional swings, feelingless days and many complex behavior. They teach us a lot but we have to keep a check on them so that they don’t have a bad impact on our career or future. What would be life if you would stay feelingless for a long period like 5 years or full life?

Work on yourself. Take a stand for yourself and fight with negativity. Work hard for your dreams and happy life. Many books say

“There is nothing you can do if you make your mind and work hard in right direction”.

You might be thinking it is not related to the pic at all, but at this point what I ca see in the eyes of those kids are dreams as we had in our childhood. My family members always say “If you study hard then dear your 2 younger sisters will get inspired by you and they will also work for a good and somewhere I believe this is true because our surroundings matter. The difference between IIT, IIM and some private college is that all students in top colleges study hard and get inspired by peers. They have big dreams and work for them whereas in private colleges or not so good colleges you might most of the students don’t work hard, have no dreams and only want the degree. Surroundings matter. If we don’t give up on our dreams, if we don’t work hard to contribute in growth of our country these kids will loose their carefree smile when they come in teenage. If we inspire them, they will also keep on having the happiness inside them.

Moreover if we stand for ourself we will regain the same carefree happiness as we had in our childhood. Work hard, live for your dreams and keep yourself and thousands of happy directly or indirectly by creating a good life for yourself and others.

Invitation for happiness?

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Had a bad past? Faced too many problems in life? Had serious mood swings? Handled yourself with courage? That is appreciable. I appreciate you to face such situations and come out of them. That needs courage and you are brave. congratulations.

 

But, are you not able to trust people easily? Happens when we have seen too much. We see everything with a different perception. We become careful with people and situations. We feel like things cannot be happy again. We have problems in accepting normal things. And after a bad relationship? We normally stay away from opposite sex because we think people are fake. We don’t want same bad situations again.

 

I know relationship is a healthy word. But it is attached to too much boundations and  restrictions which makes commitment or the strings attached between two people heavy. You feel attracted, confess the feelings, talk daily, feel loved and happy. You are on the top of the world. Some days same scenario is followed. You get full attention, day in day out. You share things. But then reality hits you. SLAP. You go busy and can’t give time. Have busy schedule and because of tiredness pay less attention. Love decreases and so talks. Once you felt attended was nowhere. You fight because that is how relationship is? You committed but not giving your 100%. So many things happen and then adjustments and compromises dominate rather than love and happiness.

 

Knowing the reality of relationship lifecycle, you should focus on happiness rather than expectations and commitments. You know how relationships work and then you keep distance from it to prevent yourself from hurting. But dear, you cannot restrict yourself because of the fear of pain. I did take a step forward and I am happy. As I took risk you should also. See what life has got for you. If you are afraid of relationship then don’t be in it, spend time and get the happiness you deserve. Do what you like, but when opportunity comes, make sure you don’t spoil it with your own hands. You are not alone, there are many people like you to accept you as you are.

 

Take risks. Take a step ahead. Maybe that’s and opportunity for you.

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When life gives you invitation to come out of pain and be happy, don’t waste it because of your bad past or insecurities about future. Be careful with your risks, but don’t give up for them. You never know that can shine your life. Don’t loose hopes. Give yourself a second chance. ❤

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Daily Prompt: New Year, New vision.

First of all, Happy new year. May this year brings a new perception of life leading to a happiness and positivity. 🙂

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A new year is as special as festivals for us. But why to celebrate a new year? We have our festivals right? Then why an arriving year is special for us? I mean there is no big deal as time passes day changes, month changes so do year. Then why?

Festivals are dear to us because our ancestors celebrated them. According to them, festivals define their rituals and beliefs. But,  I guess festivals are more. They bring happiness all around. Bring all family together thereby enjoying family time. They give peace and break from daily busy schedule and chaos.

And so, A new year is as positive as festivals.We see people taking resolutions to leave their bad habits for the new year, people going on vacations, family gatherings, partying and all. And yes, it is also heard that

If the first day of year goes well then whole year will be full of happiness.

So we try to make our first day memorable so that whole year would be full of happiness, blessings, success and all positive energy. This is what we call Hope. Yes New year is special because we see our life as outcome of years and we hope the changing year will be better than our previous year. And that hope is special. That wish and feeling is SPECIAL.

But why to be positive only in the beginning of an year? People make resolutions, follow them and then boom… after some days they forgot them and go back in their normal life again. Then what is the sense of year? Months also changes and every 30 days we get a new month. Now, if we go for a smaller unit, why not everyday as special as new year? Yea I know people are busy and celebrating every new month and day is not possible. But New year is not about celebrating it is about something more… Happiness, hope, wishes, positivity.

If we cannot celebrate each day then atleast we can welcome each day as each new year by waking up with a cute smile, Having sweet hopes and wishes for whole day and energizing will power to achieve them. Every day full of positivity. Imagine such a life.

Every day is special. As goal is achieved in small steps. An year full of happiness is a combination of 365 days. Its up to you how well you carry each day or each step towards a successful year and thus a happy life.

Do it and you will experience happiness each day.

Today is the first day of rest of your life.

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Have wonderful pages of your book. Happy new year 2017.

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Daily Prompt: Yeah! I am Moody! <3

On a odd silent night, full of thoughts with diary in hand, Surrounded by my favourite colored pens I analyzed my last few months.

I remember I took my favourite colored pen and wrote:

From being loved, being sad, afraid, happy, successful  and with each passing day changing for a better life which I forced myself to, I spent my most of the year. Yeah, I was craving for a better lifestyle which was very important for me to adopt. But do you know how does it feel to be wishing for something badly and not knowing what?

If yes! you got my point. If no, then be happy because this is one of worst situation. When you know your wishes you will come to know how to achieve it. But it is very difficult to find out what you are wishing for when you are so desperate to achieve it.

I wanted a better lifestyle but which one? That I was unaware of. 😮

 

I started with sharing my feelings and getting experiences from elders. Tried sharing my experiences too. I self analyzed with a row of thoughts every night.  I did not use social media for some days. I dropped my phone until my people told me to use it for their convinience. I went out with friends for a break. Family vacations and sharing bonds. And then which each changing behaviour of mine I was moving ahead to achieve the peace of mind I deserve. I unfriended unnecessary people from life. I made many mistakes in the way. I abandoned the close friends whom I thought as a medium of my sadness. And then correcting that mistake in the way too was maturity.

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There was  a time I cried in front of my closed ones. 😥 They saw me happy, grinning, sad, angry and depressed. Sometimes I used to yell so bad that it hurt them with hurting me too. But I never realized it as I had hurricane of emotions in my heart.

After all these experiences I learned a lot. Life is never easy and God didn’t gave it to quit. If not with plan A, plan B or X,Y,Z  you succeed and feel like fallen apart. Stand up and Do you job with a smile on yourself! That’s beauty. 🙂

Some of my ways  were selfish, hurting others, while I showed my different moods to them. But after a time I got used to it and so my people. They understand my love towards them and the fight inside me.

I feel lonely sometimes and irritated because of busy lives and people and lack of attention. I faced it daily as a part of my process. There was a time I used to feel nothing. My mood swings goes on with increasing frequency and I took a mature decision to not disturb people by getting them in my troubles when on the contrary I wanted someone to handle them with love and care. But that is not possible. 😦

 

I became my own angel, enjoy my unexpected behaviour withing myself. And now that is fun seriously.. ❤ Do not expect someone to love you, rather start loving yourself and see the miracle.

And Today I am still on the search with a more experienced and better version of myself. I will try each day with more energy. But I am happy, enjoying my own company of thoughts. Of course, No one can live without friends and family so they make me feel happy when I am with them. But night mood swings problems are purely reserved for the two specials of my life- : ME and MY DIARY! ❤ 🙂

And  I am independent enough to handle my life and can proudly say…. ‘Yeah! I am Moody :)’ 

 

This is the page I read frequently because it never let me break down and always motivates me to keep going! One of my favourite! ❤

 

 

 

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The book of life <3

We all have a blank book of our life, we are all writers in this world and our actions are our words!

Some just keep on writing as their life goes on, and some make it creative by extraordinary happiness and success! Its upon you how to write it making it as creative to be interesting! 

Some will come in your as guest writers, some will come whose memories will become your words, some will come as inspirational quotes, some as motivational learnings and some bad experiences! But its all on you, how you percieve and manage your actions cause even “a good story contains a happy ending which is the outcome of positive attitude”!

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Life is all yours, be positive, be creative! Help others, give happiness and share sorrows! Make your book an inspiration for yours and others as well! Cause life is a single opportunity, dont waste being negative when you have all the capabilities! 

Deal the negativity of life!!! :)

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It’s surprising to see that  time is changed. Negative emotions such as jealousy, revenge, pains took control over people. Most of the people are not happy, forgot to laugh!!! They lost all the hopes from their lives!!! 😦 And it’s really sad watching their negativities or the pain they had in past, controlling and resisting them to have a happy life!!!

They do not understand that they are
wrong!!! Their is positivity in everyone’s life!!! Even if you had a bad past, you can have a beautiful future by facing your pains in the present! See around, if the world is full of negativity; then we have nature, a beautiful nature, our God, good people and the close ones who are the proof of positivity! If not, look at your parents, they sacrificed so many things, only for your happiness!! And you don’t see positivity in life.? .. Huh.. Strange!!

Someone said-

“Time don’t heal anything, it just give you strength to face life and let go off your pains”.

But dear, time can make you strong only when you are ready for it!!! If you keep on holding your pains or sadness how will you move ahead to happiness?

Every person faces problems in life!! You might think your were very big in comparison to others, but that’s wrong!! Problems aren’t bigger than you… Cummon!!! You know negativity is very small in comparison to the powers of positivity!!! But yes negativity sticks easily and it become helpless if you face them, just like “fear run away when you run towards to face them”!!! Try to be happy in small things, Small moments and live your life to the fullest!! Show your past that you are stronger than it!!! Because they are many people who had struggled more than you and are living a happy life, take inspiration from them!!! If you want ask me I will help you!! 🙂

Believe in you, love yourself, trust God and leave the pains and accept positivity!!!! Help yourself… Because

” Even God help those who help themselves ” 🙂 🙂

God- Answer to every question..!!

Did you ever found your brain struggling for the complicated questions of your life?? Spent days and nights finding their answers..!! Or just revolving around to find out what’s right and what’s wrong? You have no idea whom to consult for the correct solution when you crave it. Different humans have different perspectives which confuse us and there is only one who is always right- God!

 

God has all the answers of your questions. He’s the one who directs us to the right path. Yes it’s true he loves you conditionally. He is the supporter of truth. To live this life which is God gifted… One must trust God, love and serve him. He is the greatest power, he is the one who converts our sadness into happiness.

 

When you love him, trust him; you get an extra energy- Positivity!! He accepts you in the way you want I.e.  friend, parent, lover etc. He supports you, cares for you, love you when you feel alone.

 

When he is yours, he supports you at each step of life. When you feel stuck, he will show you the right path and help you in every possible way. You need to have a right attitude to follow him.

 

Love him because no one can love you like him. Trust him you won’t get better teacher then him.

Experienced… Try it..!! 🙂 🙂

Family… :)

Real happiness is enjoying quality time with your family. Those moments are special when you forget the outside world and are busy in doing fun with each other. Your mind is free from all work load or various problems in this time. When even parents or elder people forget about their age and behave the one among you or player of game.

Those people who are busy in technology should take time out for family to see that family is not boring. This is where you grown up after birth, which gave you special childhood memories. 🙂

And for those who doesnt even have a family. you are not alone spend time with the ones you live. Because Family relations are not because of blood but because of understanding and love, which even freinds have.

Life is beautiful only when you should be able to take the advantage of its beauty!!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂 🙂

The lesson for life

Before starting the blog i was really confused, and i have so many doubts in my mind, but then i learned a lesson for life. Now i do have a facebook page too.

I love to express my feelings by writing when i didnt get anyone around to share them. One more reason behind it is I love to read them again and again, that makes me feel good! And when my friends got time.. I shared them whatever i wrote..! They encouraged me to take an initiative to start writing on a regular basis… By starting a blog, or articles in magazine etc.

But before taking an initiative i had so many questions…
such as writing down feelings is easy, anyone in this world can do it..? There are many writers who write on similar topics as i do, then why should i? There as so many good writers then me..then why? I am not even professional, why would people love to read me?

As i was not confident about my writings then how can my readers will have interest?

I asked my friends these questions to clear my doubts and what i learnt is a lifetime lesson!

” Though everyone writes on the same topics, still every writer has their own different skills. What a writer writes easily describe himself, thats why as each and every person is different their writings have different touch. Ana what you write comes directly from your heart which makes them interesting. You write out of your experience which people can easily relate. If people think like you and wont take initiative for their talent, this world will loose such a talent. If you have many competitors this doesn’t mean you will quit. And if you are not professional then you can be.. by practising it, writing a lot! No one is born perfect. Go and explore your real self don’t stop it. Trying is better than failing. “

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This was the lesson i learnt and can be applied anywhere in life. You need to take an initiative and try it before quiting in the fear of failing. If you are ready to make efforts, you cannot fail. I am now confident about whatever i write because i know it is my talent which is my self and i am happy that i didn’t fear of failing and tried it.

as a famous quote says

” You will never fail until you decide to stop trying “mistakes-proof-of-trying

Loving YOURSELF! <3

For every person in this world they are the most important person of their life. But sometimes they forget their self in the busy world.

Today Technology has made our lives very easy. With the advancement in modern lifestyle people automatically adapted it. Now a days at one side people are too busy doing their work, making a way out for their success and on the other side people are spending too much time using advance technology such as facebook, watsapp or enjoying with their friends. They are enjoying their life or working for their future, which every1 must do.. But yet they are lost somewhere in their busy life or around a group of people.

Every human being should love himself as he is the most important for him. In the world a person face many negative and positive feelings, so he should be standing their with him during those phases.

Is it stupidity? It is obvious that a person is always there with him? Then what am i trying to say?

A person should be his own best friend, because there are alot of times in life that they feel alone. They feel that they are nowhere, lost in the complexity of life. No one is yours and you need love in those tough phases.

Human nature is complex. It needs alot of love, support and care to be happy. They like encouragement by others. But what if no one is there to fulfil your these desires? Do you think it is justified to go in a depression?

No. First of all loving ourself is the best thing we can do to us. Life is all ours, we cannot afford to depend on other people to love us or we cannot hurt us if no one loves us.

But how will we love us?

Its too easy to be your own best friend. Take time out for you, talk to yourself, share your feelings, take yourself out. We find it too complex to talk to ourself? We would look foolish!!!!!!

But yes we can write down our feelings as today technology generated a habbit of writing in us (through chats or emails).
Encourage yourself, motivate, award, show care. It might sound illogical but yes its true.

Human beings are for love. If people cant even love themselves, how will they love others? Its really earning a lot of happiness when you are your best friend. It is very essential to have a self analysis when you are busy and avoiding yourself.

TRY IT.. 🙂 🙂 🙂

“Loving others is a nice feeling but loving YOURSELF is awesome. “