The lesson for life

Before starting the blog i was really confused, and i have so many doubts in my mind, but then i learned a lesson for life. Now i do have a facebook page too.

I love to express my feelings by writing when i didnt get anyone around to share them. One more reason behind it is I love to read them again and again, that makes me feel good! And when my friends got time.. I shared them whatever i wrote..! They encouraged me to take an initiative to start writing on a regular basis… By starting a blog, or articles in magazine etc.

But before taking an initiative i had so many questions…
such as writing down feelings is easy, anyone in this world can do it..? There are many writers who write on similar topics as i do, then why should i? There as so many good writers then me..then why? I am not even professional, why would people love to read me?

As i was not confident about my writings then how can my readers will have interest?

I asked my friends these questions to clear my doubts and what i learnt is a lifetime lesson!

” Though everyone writes on the same topics, still every writer has their own different skills. What a writer writes easily describe himself, thats why as each and every person is different their writings have different touch. Ana what you write comes directly from your heart which makes them interesting. You write out of your experience which people can easily relate. If people think like you and wont take initiative for their talent, this world will loose such a talent. If you have many competitors this doesn’t mean you will quit. And if you are not professional then you can be.. by practising it, writing a lot! No one is born perfect. Go and explore your real self don’t stop it. Trying is better than failing. “

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This was the lesson i learnt and can be applied anywhere in life. You need to take an initiative and try it before quiting in the fear of failing. If you are ready to make efforts, you cannot fail. I am now confident about whatever i write because i know it is my talent which is my self and i am happy that i didn’t fear of failing and tried it.

as a famous quote says

” You will never fail until you decide to stop trying “mistakes-proof-of-trying

Loving YOURSELF! <3

For every person in this world they are the most important person of their life. But sometimes they forget their self in the busy world.

Today Technology has made our lives very easy. With the advancement in modern lifestyle people automatically adapted it. Now a days at one side people are too busy doing their work, making a way out for their success and on the other side people are spending too much time using advance technology such as facebook, watsapp or enjoying with their friends. They are enjoying their life or working for their future, which every1 must do.. But yet they are lost somewhere in their busy life or around a group of people.

Every human being should love himself as he is the most important for him. In the world a person face many negative and positive feelings, so he should be standing their with him during those phases.

Is it stupidity? It is obvious that a person is always there with him? Then what am i trying to say?

A person should be his own best friend, because there are alot of times in life that they feel alone. They feel that they are nowhere, lost in the complexity of life. No one is yours and you need love in those tough phases.

Human nature is complex. It needs alot of love, support and care to be happy. They like encouragement by others. But what if no one is there to fulfil your these desires? Do you think it is justified to go in a depression?

No. First of all loving ourself is the best thing we can do to us. Life is all ours, we cannot afford to depend on other people to love us or we cannot hurt us if no one loves us.

But how will we love us?

Its too easy to be your own best friend. Take time out for you, talk to yourself, share your feelings, take yourself out. We find it too complex to talk to ourself? We would look foolish!!!!!!

But yes we can write down our feelings as today technology generated a habbit of writing in us (through chats or emails).
Encourage yourself, motivate, award, show care. It might sound illogical but yes its true.

Human beings are for love. If people cant even love themselves, how will they love others? Its really earning a lot of happiness when you are your best friend. It is very essential to have a self analysis when you are busy and avoiding yourself.

TRY IT.. 🙂 🙂 🙂

“Loving others is a nice feeling but loving YOURSELF is awesome. “

 

 

LIFE <3

I was wrong, LOVE is not always what people need. Sometimes you have to act maturely over situations, understand other’s expectations and behave accordingly. People should not be stubborn over their feelings that they neglect the natural them. Sometimes what people feel is not true… That is what they feel or wanted to feel.

It is rightly said…

What you think will happen, it doesn’t matter whether it would be positive or negative”.

No one is sad or happy, its just their thinking. As said in regious books…

“A person should be stable, i.e. Equal in both happiness and sadness”.

It depends mostly on us what feelings we want to surround us. A great person is the one who can have a control over his mind and feelings and have a proper sense to know how to behave with people around, without hurting them.

Passion, success, dreams these deep meaning words are so easy to IMAGINE yet so DIFFICULT to live them in real life. The hunger or the desire for them will never leave you.. And yes these desires are to be fulfilled for a healthy future life. Once you avoid them, ignore them.. A lot many times.. They would trigger your mind at the worst phase when you aren’t even capable of achieving them. And yes REGRET is a small word yet more than the word SUFFERING…!

You have one life to live all the desires you have. Its not only about you but also about the people who love you (your Parents etc), they deserve their expectations from you should be fullfilled. You see its not easy. LIFE is an irony having so many different feelings which you can never even  imagine. To live a happy life one must know to balance these feelings. For these the perfect solution is loving yourself, spending time with yourself, knowing the needs of your body and soul and then working for them. You dont need to ask several people how we should balance our feelings? What will make us happy? etc etc. Just spend time with yourself.. Be your best friend.. You will get to know all the answers and solutions.

LOVE YOURSELF and have the goal to use each and every second of your life besides having short/long term goals. LIVE this and you will see

THE
MAGIC
OF
LIFE ❤ ❤ 🙂

Elder-younger gap

No doubt the nurture elders provide is unbound and unceasing!! But sometimes at different circumstances they behave negatively like the times they are angry/stressed or have an ego of their position and burst out on us even when we are not at fault! We as younger than them cannot object against them as it is a matter of position! For instance Boss, teachers, elder cousins, parents or relatives have done this many a times! Each and every person is elder/younger in his life and would not like to be treated bad!! So we as humans has to understand both the sides to maintain proper relationships!! Solution is Either “forget your position or remember your limit while communicating” because relationships are the important part of life in which we have to play the role of elders as well as youngers!! Deal with courtesy to have success in personal and professional relationships and watch yourself being happy in life!! 🙂 🙂

Mischievious yet lovely people of life

Those close  mischievous people who take the advantage of our love and tease us…

by not talking, ignoring and blocking!!! because they knew we miss them, we cant live without them, we will be worried and we will go to them… will do whatever they say to convince them!!! 😛 poor we and then that gives them that cruel happiness of Villain type!! and we.. we love them more… calling them idiot! 😉 that’s called a sweet relation!! ❤ ❤ :*

Understanding between relations

understanding

Relations,understandings, friendships can be lost somewhere during tough phases…! Two people may not talk for years!! But the truth is understanding never flies away…its just they stop showing and start believing that other person doesn’t want to continue anymore! Both loose the hope!! Still if you take a deeper look … Trust, care is always there for forever but hidden for many reasons…. which you can see in their eyes!! Realize understanding and Give your such relations a try… Trust me you will find real happiness…. Because the relations based on understanding, sharing, trust, sacrificing, compromising and love is special…. Indeed very very special! ❤

Prioritites

Every human being has different priorities which keeps on changing from time to time! LIFE in short is a game of priorities at different times!!! No one is busy in life but their priority at that particular moment makes them busy! If someone is not able to pay attention towards you… do not run behind them…. stay calm and wait! It will save your ego as well as other person’s mood! If they care they will return back else be happy that you are saved from running behind a person & loosing your respect! Never have any negative feeling because it will destroy you! Just try to walk in other person’s shoes because there will be a day of you as well!!! So be happy and accept what life gives!!!!! 🙂 🙂