Invitation for happiness?

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Had a bad past? Faced too many problems in life? Had serious mood swings? Handled yourself with courage? That is appreciable. I appreciate you to face such situations and come out of them. That needs courage and you are brave. congratulations.

 

But, are you not able to trust people easily? Happens when we have seen too much. We see everything with a different perception. We become careful with people and situations. We feel like things cannot be happy again. We have problems in accepting normal things. And after a bad relationship? We normally stay away from opposite sex because we think people are fake. We don’t want same bad situations again.

 

I know relationship is a healthy word. But it is attached to too much boundations and  restrictions which makes commitment or the strings attached between two people heavy. You feel attracted, confess the feelings, talk daily, feel loved and happy. You are on the top of the world. Some days same scenario is followed. You get full attention, day in day out. You share things. But then reality hits you. SLAP. You go busy and can’t give time. Have busy schedule and because of tiredness pay less attention. Love decreases and so talks. Once you felt attended was nowhere. You fight because that is how relationship is? You committed but not giving your 100%. So many things happen and then adjustments and compromises dominate rather than love and happiness.

 

Knowing the reality of relationship lifecycle, you should focus on happiness rather than expectations and commitments. You know how relationships work and then you keep distance from it to prevent yourself from hurting. But dear, you cannot restrict yourself because of the fear of pain. I did take a step forward and I am happy. As I took risk you should also. See what life has got for you. If you are afraid of relationship then don’t be in it, spend time and get the happiness you deserve. Do what you like, but when opportunity comes, make sure you don’t spoil it with your own hands. You are not alone, there are many people like you to accept you as you are.

 

Take risks. Take a step ahead. Maybe that’s and opportunity for you.

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When life gives you invitation to come out of pain and be happy, don’t waste it because of your bad past or insecurities about future. Be careful with your risks, but don’t give up for them. You never know that can shine your life. Don’t loose hopes. Give yourself a second chance. ❤

via Daily Prompt: Invitation

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Welcome 2016!! :)

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New year gives new hopes, wishes n dreams!!! It gives the hopes to have new wishes…!! Gives the positivity of a beautiful life ahead!! It gives the dare to complete resolutions regarding bad habbits and unachieved goals!! It gives a new desires to improve ourself!! It gives the new directions for our career!! It gives the opportunity to love more and show care towards our dear words!! And at last it gives the happiness to live your life full of craziness with your whole heart!!! Doing what you love to!!!

Happy new year 2016!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

God- Answer to every question..!!

Did you ever found your brain struggling for the complicated questions of your life?? Spent days and nights finding their answers..!! Or just revolving around to find out what’s right and what’s wrong? You have no idea whom to consult for the correct solution when you crave it. Different humans have different perspectives which confuse us and there is only one who is always right- God!

 

God has all the answers of your questions. He’s the one who directs us to the right path. Yes it’s true he loves you conditionally. He is the supporter of truth. To live this life which is God gifted… One must trust God, love and serve him. He is the greatest power, he is the one who converts our sadness into happiness.

 

When you love him, trust him; you get an extra energy- Positivity!! He accepts you in the way you want I.e.  friend, parent, lover etc. He supports you, cares for you, love you when you feel alone.

 

When he is yours, he supports you at each step of life. When you feel stuck, he will show you the right path and help you in every possible way. You need to have a right attitude to follow him.

 

Love him because no one can love you like him. Trust him you won’t get better teacher then him.

Experienced… Try it..!! 🙂 🙂

Family… :)

Real happiness is enjoying quality time with your family. Those moments are special when you forget the outside world and are busy in doing fun with each other. Your mind is free from all work load or various problems in this time. When even parents or elder people forget about their age and behave the one among you or player of game.

Those people who are busy in technology should take time out for family to see that family is not boring. This is where you grown up after birth, which gave you special childhood memories. 🙂

And for those who doesnt even have a family. you are not alone spend time with the ones you live. Because Family relations are not because of blood but because of understanding and love, which even freinds have.

Life is beautiful only when you should be able to take the advantage of its beauty!!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂 🙂

Loving YOURSELF! <3

For every person in this world they are the most important person of their life. But sometimes they forget their self in the busy world.

Today Technology has made our lives very easy. With the advancement in modern lifestyle people automatically adapted it. Now a days at one side people are too busy doing their work, making a way out for their success and on the other side people are spending too much time using advance technology such as facebook, watsapp or enjoying with their friends. They are enjoying their life or working for their future, which every1 must do.. But yet they are lost somewhere in their busy life or around a group of people.

Every human being should love himself as he is the most important for him. In the world a person face many negative and positive feelings, so he should be standing their with him during those phases.

Is it stupidity? It is obvious that a person is always there with him? Then what am i trying to say?

A person should be his own best friend, because there are alot of times in life that they feel alone. They feel that they are nowhere, lost in the complexity of life. No one is yours and you need love in those tough phases.

Human nature is complex. It needs alot of love, support and care to be happy. They like encouragement by others. But what if no one is there to fulfil your these desires? Do you think it is justified to go in a depression?

No. First of all loving ourself is the best thing we can do to us. Life is all ours, we cannot afford to depend on other people to love us or we cannot hurt us if no one loves us.

But how will we love us?

Its too easy to be your own best friend. Take time out for you, talk to yourself, share your feelings, take yourself out. We find it too complex to talk to ourself? We would look foolish!!!!!!

But yes we can write down our feelings as today technology generated a habbit of writing in us (through chats or emails).
Encourage yourself, motivate, award, show care. It might sound illogical but yes its true.

Human beings are for love. If people cant even love themselves, how will they love others? Its really earning a lot of happiness when you are your best friend. It is very essential to have a self analysis when you are busy and avoiding yourself.

TRY IT.. 🙂 🙂 🙂

“Loving others is a nice feeling but loving YOURSELF is awesome. “

 

 

Beautiful LOVE Story <3

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They met ONLINE having many mutual friends!…
Started chatting.. Numbers exchanged! The GIRL was innocent and Honest.. And the BOY was Matured and Confident..! After some days Girl fell in LOVE with him.. that too UNCONDITIONAL!!! She realized that he is only her PRINCE..! But.. she was not valued.. Boy used her to show his ex that he have a line of girls!!! She supported him and love him at each and every point…… and he used her whenever he needed someone for certain reasons!! Girl was hurt.. always.. but she continued supporting him as she don’t want him to left ALONE at any point!!!! She KNEW that one he will realize her value… he will LOVE her too.. She knew that the boy (her PRINCE) isn’t bad.. but the circumstances are! AND………
as it is said .. life is COMPLEX! there came a positive turn in her LIFE.. while faking feelings for her, while showing fake care and love… Somewhere he fell in love with the sweet girl!!!!!! More and more .. each day.. each moment!!!!
HE started treating her as a PRINCESS… And they live happily together… CRAZY IN LOVE .. coz their bond was because of the understanding they had in those bad times!!! and their love increases each SECOND……….

And its right…… LOVE STORIES ARE MADE BY GOD…. you never know who is made for you! and HENCE EVERY LOVE STORY IS DIFFERENT… but has lots and lots of LOVE in COMMON!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂

Mischievious yet lovely people of life

Those close  mischievous people who take the advantage of our love and tease us…

by not talking, ignoring and blocking!!! because they knew we miss them, we cant live without them, we will be worried and we will go to them… will do whatever they say to convince them!!! 😛 poor we and then that gives them that cruel happiness of Villain type!! and we.. we love them more… calling them idiot! 😉 that’s called a sweet relation!! ❤ ❤ :*

Relationship advice

Maintaining relationships aren’t that easy which is seen from outside! Today many people want their partner with whom they can share their feelings, they also want to feel attended and loved! Its a human nature to feel love and get praised! And for this happiness teenagers get into relationships! become bf and gf! and then spend those lovey dovey moments! at first it seems as expected! full of happiness! but as said.. happiness and sorrows comes one by one! Things goes wrong and then they fight a lot! They wish they would not have come in relationship! but there is no other option! There can be many negative consequences too…. like depression,pain,psychological and emotional changes!!! So think wisely before getting in a relationship… because may be it seems good from outside but a successful relationship have a lot of compromises and sacrifices and if you can avoid it as much as possible and wait for the right moment!! for the Right Person!!!!