Invitation for happiness?

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Had a bad past? Faced too many problems in life? Had serious mood swings? Handled yourself with courage? That is appreciable. I appreciate you to face such situations and come out of them. That needs courage and you are brave. congratulations.

 

But, are you not able to trust people easily? Happens when we have seen too much. We see everything with a different perception. We become careful with people and situations. We feel like things cannot be happy again. We have problems in accepting normal things. And after a bad relationship? We normally stay away from opposite sex because we think people are fake. We don’t want same bad situations again.

 

I know relationship is a healthy word. But it is attached to too much boundations and  restrictions which makes commitment or the strings attached between two people heavy. You feel attracted, confess the feelings, talk daily, feel loved and happy. You are on the top of the world. Some days same scenario is followed. You get full attention, day in day out. You share things. But then reality hits you. SLAP. You go busy and can’t give time. Have busy schedule and because of tiredness pay less attention. Love decreases and so talks. Once you felt attended was nowhere. You fight because that is how relationship is? You committed but not giving your 100%. So many things happen and then adjustments and compromises dominate rather than love and happiness.

 

Knowing the reality of relationship lifecycle, you should focus on happiness rather than expectations and commitments. You know how relationships work and then you keep distance from it to prevent yourself from hurting. But dear, you cannot restrict yourself because of the fear of pain. I did take a step forward and I am happy. As I took risk you should also. See what life has got for you. If you are afraid of relationship then don’t be in it, spend time and get the happiness you deserve. Do what you like, but when opportunity comes, make sure you don’t spoil it with your own hands. You are not alone, there are many people like you to accept you as you are.

 

Take risks. Take a step ahead. Maybe that’s and opportunity for you.

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When life gives you invitation to come out of pain and be happy, don’t waste it because of your bad past or insecurities about future. Be careful with your risks, but don’t give up for them. You never know that can shine your life. Don’t loose hopes. Give yourself a second chance. ❤

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Daily Prompt: Yeah! I am Moody! <3

On a odd silent night, full of thoughts with diary in hand, Surrounded by my favourite colored pens I analyzed my last few months.

I remember I took my favourite colored pen and wrote:

From being loved, being sad, afraid, happy, successful  and with each passing day changing for a better life which I forced myself to, I spent my most of the year. Yeah, I was craving for a better lifestyle which was very important for me to adopt. But do you know how does it feel to be wishing for something badly and not knowing what?

If yes! you got my point. If no, then be happy because this is one of worst situation. When you know your wishes you will come to know how to achieve it. But it is very difficult to find out what you are wishing for when you are so desperate to achieve it.

I wanted a better lifestyle but which one? That I was unaware of. 😮

 

I started with sharing my feelings and getting experiences from elders. Tried sharing my experiences too. I self analyzed with a row of thoughts every night.  I did not use social media for some days. I dropped my phone until my people told me to use it for their convinience. I went out with friends for a break. Family vacations and sharing bonds. And then which each changing behaviour of mine I was moving ahead to achieve the peace of mind I deserve. I unfriended unnecessary people from life. I made many mistakes in the way. I abandoned the close friends whom I thought as a medium of my sadness. And then correcting that mistake in the way too was maturity.

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There was  a time I cried in front of my closed ones. 😥 They saw me happy, grinning, sad, angry and depressed. Sometimes I used to yell so bad that it hurt them with hurting me too. But I never realized it as I had hurricane of emotions in my heart.

After all these experiences I learned a lot. Life is never easy and God didn’t gave it to quit. If not with plan A, plan B or X,Y,Z  you succeed and feel like fallen apart. Stand up and Do you job with a smile on yourself! That’s beauty. 🙂

Some of my ways  were selfish, hurting others, while I showed my different moods to them. But after a time I got used to it and so my people. They understand my love towards them and the fight inside me.

I feel lonely sometimes and irritated because of busy lives and people and lack of attention. I faced it daily as a part of my process. There was a time I used to feel nothing. My mood swings goes on with increasing frequency and I took a mature decision to not disturb people by getting them in my troubles when on the contrary I wanted someone to handle them with love and care. But that is not possible. 😦

 

I became my own angel, enjoy my unexpected behaviour withing myself. And now that is fun seriously.. ❤ Do not expect someone to love you, rather start loving yourself and see the miracle.

And Today I am still on the search with a more experienced and better version of myself. I will try each day with more energy. But I am happy, enjoying my own company of thoughts. Of course, No one can live without friends and family so they make me feel happy when I am with them. But night mood swings problems are purely reserved for the two specials of my life- : ME and MY DIARY! ❤ 🙂

And  I am independent enough to handle my life and can proudly say…. ‘Yeah! I am Moody :)’ 

 

This is the page I read frequently because it never let me break down and always motivates me to keep going! One of my favourite! ❤

 

 

 

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The book of life <3

We all have a blank book of our life, we are all writers in this world and our actions are our words!

Some just keep on writing as their life goes on, and some make it creative by extraordinary happiness and success! Its upon you how to write it making it as creative to be interesting! 

Some will come in your as guest writers, some will come whose memories will become your words, some will come as inspirational quotes, some as motivational learnings and some bad experiences! But its all on you, how you percieve and manage your actions cause even “a good story contains a happy ending which is the outcome of positive attitude”!

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Life is all yours, be positive, be creative! Help others, give happiness and share sorrows! Make your book an inspiration for yours and others as well! Cause life is a single opportunity, dont waste being negative when you have all the capabilities! 

Family… :)

Real happiness is enjoying quality time with your family. Those moments are special when you forget the outside world and are busy in doing fun with each other. Your mind is free from all work load or various problems in this time. When even parents or elder people forget about their age and behave the one among you or player of game.

Those people who are busy in technology should take time out for family to see that family is not boring. This is where you grown up after birth, which gave you special childhood memories. 🙂

And for those who doesnt even have a family. you are not alone spend time with the ones you live. Because Family relations are not because of blood but because of understanding and love, which even freinds have.

Life is beautiful only when you should be able to take the advantage of its beauty!!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂 🙂

LIFE <3

I was wrong, LOVE is not always what people need. Sometimes you have to act maturely over situations, understand other’s expectations and behave accordingly. People should not be stubborn over their feelings that they neglect the natural them. Sometimes what people feel is not true… That is what they feel or wanted to feel.

It is rightly said…

What you think will happen, it doesn’t matter whether it would be positive or negative”.

No one is sad or happy, its just their thinking. As said in regious books…

“A person should be stable, i.e. Equal in both happiness and sadness”.

It depends mostly on us what feelings we want to surround us. A great person is the one who can have a control over his mind and feelings and have a proper sense to know how to behave with people around, without hurting them.

Passion, success, dreams these deep meaning words are so easy to IMAGINE yet so DIFFICULT to live them in real life. The hunger or the desire for them will never leave you.. And yes these desires are to be fulfilled for a healthy future life. Once you avoid them, ignore them.. A lot many times.. They would trigger your mind at the worst phase when you aren’t even capable of achieving them. And yes REGRET is a small word yet more than the word SUFFERING…!

You have one life to live all the desires you have. Its not only about you but also about the people who love you (your Parents etc), they deserve their expectations from you should be fullfilled. You see its not easy. LIFE is an irony having so many different feelings which you can never even  imagine. To live a happy life one must know to balance these feelings. For these the perfect solution is loving yourself, spending time with yourself, knowing the needs of your body and soul and then working for them. You dont need to ask several people how we should balance our feelings? What will make us happy? etc etc. Just spend time with yourself.. Be your best friend.. You will get to know all the answers and solutions.

LOVE YOURSELF and have the goal to use each and every second of your life besides having short/long term goals. LIVE this and you will see

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Beautiful LOVE Story <3

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They met ONLINE having many mutual friends!…
Started chatting.. Numbers exchanged! The GIRL was innocent and Honest.. And the BOY was Matured and Confident..! After some days Girl fell in LOVE with him.. that too UNCONDITIONAL!!! She realized that he is only her PRINCE..! But.. she was not valued.. Boy used her to show his ex that he have a line of girls!!! She supported him and love him at each and every point…… and he used her whenever he needed someone for certain reasons!! Girl was hurt.. always.. but she continued supporting him as she don’t want him to left ALONE at any point!!!! She KNEW that one he will realize her value… he will LOVE her too.. She knew that the boy (her PRINCE) isn’t bad.. but the circumstances are! AND………
as it is said .. life is COMPLEX! there came a positive turn in her LIFE.. while faking feelings for her, while showing fake care and love… Somewhere he fell in love with the sweet girl!!!!!! More and more .. each day.. each moment!!!!
HE started treating her as a PRINCESS… And they live happily together… CRAZY IN LOVE .. coz their bond was because of the understanding they had in those bad times!!! and their love increases each SECOND……….

And its right…… LOVE STORIES ARE MADE BY GOD…. you never know who is made for you! and HENCE EVERY LOVE STORY IS DIFFERENT… but has lots and lots of LOVE in COMMON!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂

Mischievious yet lovely people of life

Those close  mischievous people who take the advantage of our love and tease us…

by not talking, ignoring and blocking!!! because they knew we miss them, we cant live without them, we will be worried and we will go to them… will do whatever they say to convince them!!! 😛 poor we and then that gives them that cruel happiness of Villain type!! and we.. we love them more… calling them idiot! 😉 that’s called a sweet relation!! ❤ ❤ :*

Understanding between relations

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Relations,understandings, friendships can be lost somewhere during tough phases…! Two people may not talk for years!! But the truth is understanding never flies away…its just they stop showing and start believing that other person doesn’t want to continue anymore! Both loose the hope!! Still if you take a deeper look … Trust, care is always there for forever but hidden for many reasons…. which you can see in their eyes!! Realize understanding and Give your such relations a try… Trust me you will find real happiness…. Because the relations based on understanding, sharing, trust, sacrificing, compromising and love is special…. Indeed very very special! ❤

Relationship advice

Maintaining relationships aren’t that easy which is seen from outside! Today many people want their partner with whom they can share their feelings, they also want to feel attended and loved! Its a human nature to feel love and get praised! And for this happiness teenagers get into relationships! become bf and gf! and then spend those lovey dovey moments! at first it seems as expected! full of happiness! but as said.. happiness and sorrows comes one by one! Things goes wrong and then they fight a lot! They wish they would not have come in relationship! but there is no other option! There can be many negative consequences too…. like depression,pain,psychological and emotional changes!!! So think wisely before getting in a relationship… because may be it seems good from outside but a successful relationship have a lot of compromises and sacrifices and if you can avoid it as much as possible and wait for the right moment!! for the Right Person!!!!