Create a happy life :)

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You can see that big and carefree smile of these kids. Remind you of your childhood? You miss your childhood? Yeah I also do. Because it was time we had to just play and learn from surroundings. We had no stress, no responsibilities and no race where we need to prove our self.

You must all be struggling for job or studies or maybe to prove yourself in your field. Some of you might be at a good position but still you are not that happy as you were in childhood. Somewhere we all are working for our dreams or a better life. Some with more dedication, some with fast pace, some with slow pace, some with hard work, some with smart work. We all are doing our part. Even I am. But then sometimes it’s not enough, we need to do more. More and more each day.

What we lack is motivation. Yeah when someone gives us a lecture to work hard and motivates us we are motivated and there work is done. But then we could not stand by it for long. We need more motivation after regular intervals. But then why? Can’t we motivate ourself for the thing which will happen for our benefit only. Stay motivated guys. There are many motivating videos on youtube or read good blogs. People will help you, it’s you who need to keep your distractions and laziness aside to prove people who invoke you or fulfill the needs of your wishes.

Another thing what is a big challenge for us teenagers is that we are involved in lot of emotional ups and downs which is a big distraction. I agree emotional attachments are important and Even I am the person who is attached to so many people who are very important to me. But if those attachments start giving you pain or negativity and keep holding you then you have to take a step for yourself or the person who matter to you. Either leave the attachment or prepare yourself to not let the negativity to destroy you.

I see people having emotional swings, feelingless days and many complex behavior. They teach us a lot but we have to keep a check on them so that they don’t have a bad impact on our career or future. What would be life if you would stay feelingless for a long period like 5 years or full life?

Work on yourself. Take a stand for yourself and fight with negativity. Work hard for your dreams and happy life. Many books say

“There is nothing you can do if you make your mind and work hard in right direction”.

You might be thinking it is not related to the pic at all, but at this point what I ca see in the eyes of those kids are dreams as we had in our childhood. My family members always say “If you study hard then dear your 2 younger sisters will get inspired by you and they will also work for a good and somewhere I believe this is true because our surroundings matter. The difference between IIT, IIM and some private college is that all students in top colleges study hard and get inspired by peers. They have big dreams and work for them whereas in private colleges or not so good colleges you might most of the students don’t work hard, have no dreams and only want the degree. Surroundings matter. If we don’t give up on our dreams, if we don’t work hard to contribute in growth of our country these kids will loose their carefree smile when they come in teenage. If we inspire them, they will also keep on having the happiness inside them.

Moreover if we stand for ourself we will regain the same carefree happiness as we had in our childhood. Work hard, live for your dreams and keep yourself and thousands of happy directly or indirectly by creating a good life for yourself and others.

Daily Prompt: New Year, New vision.

First of all, Happy new year. May this year brings a new perception of life leading to a happiness and positivity. πŸ™‚

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A new year is as special as festivals for us. But why to celebrate a new year? We have our festivals right? Then why an arriving year is special for us? I mean there is no big deal as time passes day changes, month changes so do year. Then why?

Festivals are dear to us because our ancestors celebrated them. According to them, festivals define their rituals and beliefs. But,Β  I guess festivals are more. They bring happiness all around. Bring all family together thereby enjoying family time. They give peace and break from daily busy schedule and chaos.

And so, A new year is as positive as festivals.We see people taking resolutions to leave their bad habits for the new year, people going on vacations, family gatherings, partying and all. And yes, it is also heard that

If the first day of year goes well then whole year will be full of happiness.

So we try to make our first day memorable so that whole year would be full of happiness, blessings, success and all positive energy. This is what we call Hope. Yes New year is special because we see our life as outcome of years and we hope the changing year will be better than our previous year. And that hope is special. That wish and feeling is SPECIAL.

But why to be positive only in the beginning of an year? People make resolutions, follow them and then boom… after some days they forgot them and go back in their normal life again. Then what is the sense of year? Months also changes and every 30 days we get a new month. Now, if we go for a smaller unit, why not everyday as special as new year? Yea I know people are busy and celebrating every new month and day is not possible. But New year is not about celebrating it is about something more… Happiness, hope, wishes, positivity.

If we cannot celebrate each day then atleast we can welcome each day as each new year by waking up with a cute smile, Having sweet hopes and wishes for whole day and energizing will power to achieve them. Every day full of positivity. Imagine such a life.

Every day is special. As goal is achieved in small steps. An year full of happiness is a combination of 365 days. Its up to you how well you carry each day or each step towards a successful year and thus a happy life.

Do it and you will experience happiness each day.

Today is the first day of rest of your life.

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Have wonderful pages of your book. Happy new year 2017.

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Welcome 2016!! :)

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New year gives new hopes, wishes n dreams!!! It gives the hopes to have new wishes…!! Gives the positivity of a beautiful life ahead!! It gives the dare to complete resolutions regarding bad habbits and unachieved goals!! It gives a new desires to improve ourself!! It gives the new directions for our career!! It gives the opportunity to love more and show care towards our dear words!! And at last it gives the happiness to live your life full of craziness with your whole heart!!! Doing what you love to!!!

Happy new year 2016!!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Dreams,Goals and Success!

Everyone is quite aware of these terms. They play a vital role in your life. Dreams, goals and success sometimes sound the same……! But yes there isΒ  a difference between them. On a professional front….

Dreams– they are the desires to be fulfilled. The desires that are the result of our interest. For example- admission in the best university, job in a multinational company, big earning for a luxury life!!!

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Goals– goals are the steps or the tasks which lead to your dreams.! They are small and big, short term and long term, and according to priority!!! They include planning and accomplishment. Example- securing a seat in best university needs good marks in competitive exams whose preparation can be divided into small goals : syllabus completion in 3 months, revision in 2 weeks or achieving 95%marks in test series.

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Success– it’s the biggest goal of the life. Though as famous quote says-

“Success is a journey not a destination”

Success can be living all your dreams, achieving your life’s happiness on a regular basis!!!! Success is different according to different people, but yes the base of success for all is same- “HAPPINESS”. It’s the victory of our hard work.

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In order to have a great life with full of happiness, balancing these important terms is must.

One must turn their dreams into goals of life and work qualitatively on them because-

Dreams can inspire you, but goals can change your life.

A constructive work with efficient planning on the Goals based on Dreams, lead to Success.

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