Invitation for happiness?

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Had a bad past? Faced too many problems in life? Had serious mood swings? Handled yourself with courage? That is appreciable. I appreciate you to face such situations and come out of them. That needs courage and you are brave. congratulations.

 

But, are you not able to trust people easily? Happens when we have seen too much. We see everything with a different perception. We become careful with people and situations. We feel like things cannot be happy again. We have problems in accepting normal things. And after a bad relationship? We normally stay away from opposite sex because we think people are fake. We don’t want same bad situations again.

 

I know relationship is a healthy word. But it is attached to too much boundations andΒ  restrictions which makes commitment or the strings attached between two people heavy. You feel attracted, confess the feelings, talk daily, feel loved and happy. You are on the top of the world. Some days same scenario is followed. You get full attention, day in day out. You share things. But then reality hits you. SLAP. You go busy and can’t give time. Have busy schedule and because of tiredness pay less attention. Love decreases and so talks. Once you felt attended was nowhere. You fight because that is how relationship is? You committed but not giving your 100%. So many things happen and then adjustments and compromises dominate rather than love and happiness.

 

Knowing the reality of relationship lifecycle, you should focus on happiness rather than expectations and commitments. You know how relationships work and then you keep distance from it to prevent yourself from hurting. But dear, you cannot restrict yourself because of the fear of pain. I did take a step forward and I am happy. As I took risk you should also. See what life has got for you. If you are afraid of relationship then don’t be in it, spend time and get the happiness you deserve. Do what you like, but when opportunity comes, make sure you don’t spoil it with your own hands. You are not alone, there are many people like you to accept you as you are.

 

Take risks. Take a step ahead. Maybe that’s and opportunity for you.

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When life gives you invitation to come out of pain and be happy, don’t waste it because of your bad past or insecurities about future. Be careful with your risks, but don’t give up for them. You never know that can shine your life. Don’t loose hopes. Give yourself a second chance. ❀

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Daily Prompt: Gone for good!


Gone? What’s the first thing that comes in my mind after reading this word? 2016.. Yeah 2016 to be serious. 2016 is gone and I miss it a lot.

You know for me 2016 was a Survivor year. It gave me every happiness and then took it and finally taught me how to balance my life between expectations and reality, between being emotional and practical, between heart and mind.

In the starting few months it gave me the biggest problem of my life, thinking of that shakes me out of fear even now. I get thoughts about it every night before sleeping and I face it. Yeah I am a fighter. It scares the hell out of me, I shiver out of fear and then I calm myself down. Not for one day but daily. And I will not let myself be broken by that fear.

Valentines day, 14 February was one of my favorite memory of 2016. I had a long chat with someone I love and he proved my beliefs about him true. Situations wanted me to let him go away but I never gave up on him. So, that was the day my heart won with its love.

In the middle of the year, I was lucky enough to experience a trip in foreign land with my family. That was lovely. Traveling is always fun and when you get peace in your vacations, it is always cherry on the cake. I wasn’t that excited to go. But when I reached Singapore, the city made me fall in love with it. After going I was so excited that I felt bad for leaving the city. Plus it was my birthday trip, have not got such a wonderful gift in life.

It was year of friendships, relations actually a mirror for them. It showed me who is worth to be cared for and to spent my time on. There come many type of people in our lives some stay for small period, some for longer and some forever. 2016 taught me how to differentiate among types of people and deal with their period of time. Yeah I lost some people, Some people lost me. It’s a balance, Not all people are meant to stay. And when you don’t know how to handle friendships ? Learn it, or time will teach as 2016 did to me.

It was whole year of experiments I loved. I turned my friends, by friends I mean close friends including my best friend, my enemies. I left them saying blah blah blah, fighting with them and so on. All fake. Circumstances made me do that. And then after some months I got them back. Yeah because some friends are true friends no matter how you show from outside, they know your true feelings.

Did I mention about mood swings of 2016? Oh! I had never seen such swings in my mood whole life. Have you ever felt numb? Have you ever felt that someone is using a pin in your body but still you didn’t feel that pain? Yeah I experienced it.

I don’t know why? I was doing all fine, actually just living my life and then Tragic turn came. So much feelings to feel and now I can see what I could not at that time. I really thought I was fine, but I was struggling to get a better future. I was struggling to get a living from my present.

 

I felt that I am fine but then I would think what is so good about my life that I am fine? I spent months hanging between fine and not fine. And then came a turn, I stopped caring about anything, means anything in life. Nothing mattered much. Okay someone abused me? Its okay. Someone hurted me? I thought for 5 minutes about it and then I am okay. I failed? Fine, I will give the retest. My friend cheated me? Fine there is nothing that can be done. My ex whom I still love have a new girl friend? Oh that too fine, because I can’t do anything in that.

I kept on analyzing my situations throughout the year. I shared this situation with one of my friend and he replied “You are preparing for a better version of yourself. Have patience and enjoy the transformation.” And now I understand his words. I really was getting better each day. And I am better today.

There was a time I cried myself to sleep almost daily and not knowing the reason. I mean how can someone cry without any reason? That is a tough situation. Sometimes I could see myself getting upset for silly reasons, I should say very sad, like too much. Sometimes I would get irritated and angry on my friends without their fault. And sometimes I speak “So what?”, “That’s your problem” and “I don’t care” when they share about their problems. I mean how does it feel to hear when you are already stressed?

I hurted people and got hurted too. Its okay. They never knew about the hurricane of feelings inside me. Soon they forgot what I did and were happy in there life, as if it hardly mattered. Then came the time I felt nothing again yes again after feeling care for people and then hurting them because I felt I don’t exist in their life as they exist in mine. I felt that my absence won’t matter to them, even if my presence did.So I chose to leave them.

Ya I didn’t soon I went to again in the Not feeling phase for 2-3 months and this time I was pretty cool with it because I had experienced it earlier. Ya I noted every feeling, every part well in my diary (P.S. I am a regular diary writer). And then First feeling I felt is happiness. Yeah I felt happy seeing how much my brother loves and cares for me, I felt happy dancing with friends, I felt happy enjoying festival with my family, I felt happy when I started learning to make android applications, I felt happy when I should. I went to a family wedding and there I had an awesome time. I had my happiness at peak. Then came anger. Yeah the second feeling. I got angry on my brother to say that he want to listen my every feeling when he wasn’t ready. I was angry on him to not being there when I needed him. I was angry on my friends for treating me granted. And that anger brought my all feelings back.

Yupiiee! I survived that phase. ❀ I got my feelings back because I already learnt what I was supposed to learn. I did pass. And in the end of 2016, I confronted with my love, which was one sided. I thought to propose him and listen his NO directly. So that I don’t live in any false hopes and destroy myself again. I got the NO and I moved on. Yeah I was already on my moving on phase from those months of my mood swings. I realized that I have to accept the situation, so it was easy.

And here I am with all my feelings, a better version of myself, writing this post with a happy smile on my face. Yeah I am happy, real one. Because I learnt how to live a life with small moments and make a better future.

I miss 2016. But sometimes Its better to let go. 2016 was meant to go as I already learnt my lessons, its work is over.

Yeah I can proudly say 2016 is GONE with older version of me. GONE FOR GOOD… πŸ™‚

 

 

Daily Prompt: Festive Feeling, Christmas!

 

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After being a strong girl for a long time she break down this day known as Christmas. She always expressed her love towards her dear ones and never left any chance to show them how important they are in her life.

She had seen lots of ups and downs. She have been lonely. She needed attention and people to express her feelings. She heard Christmas is to grant wishes to lovely person.
Today she have a wish. She is searching her Santa around and expecting sweet surprise which she love too much. She wish each of her loved one to be a Santa and do something or express feelings in such a way to be reminded her importance. She also want to feel special.

Now she is tired of showing love and not being expressed in return. She knows people love her but maybe her chaos is making her memory forgettable. Yeah she needs to be reminded. She needs no money, no expensive gifts…. But true care and love to be expressed!

 

She is trying to find herself in the disturbance of life. She is trying to regain her self. And needs Santas to support her!
May her wishes be granted. My she get lots of surprises and have a wonderful day of her life.

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#ChristmasWishes
#LoveRedefined

 

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Welcome 2016!! :)

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New year gives new hopes, wishes n dreams!!! It gives the hopes to have new wishes…!! Gives the positivity of a beautiful life ahead!! It gives the dare to complete resolutions regarding bad habbits and unachieved goals!! It gives a new desires to improve ourself!! It gives the new directions for our career!! It gives the opportunity to love more and show care towards our dear words!! And at last it gives the happiness to live your life full of craziness with your whole heart!!! Doing what you love to!!!

Happy new year 2016!!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Deal the negativity of life!!! :)

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It’s surprising to see that  time is changed. Negative emotions such as jealousy, revenge, pains took control over people. Most of the people are not happy, forgot to laugh!!! They lost all the hopes from their lives!!! 😦 And it’s really sad watching their negativities or the pain they had in past, controlling and resisting them to have a happy life!!!

They do not understand that they are
wrong!!! Their is positivity in everyone’s life!!! Even if you had a bad past, you can have a beautiful future by facing your pains in the present! See around, if the world is full of negativity; then we have nature, a beautiful nature, our God, good people and the close ones who are the proof of positivity! If not, look at your parents, they sacrificed so many things, only for your happiness!! And you don’t see positivity in life.? .. Huh.. Strange!!

Someone said-

“Time don’t heal anything, it just give you strength to face life and let go off your pains”.

But dear, time can make you strong only when you are ready for it!!! If you keep on holding your pains or sadness how will you move ahead to happiness?

Every person faces problems in life!! You might think your were very big in comparison to others, but that’s wrong!! Problems aren’t bigger than you… Cummon!!! You know negativity is very small in comparison to the powers of positivity!!! But yes negativity sticks easily and it become helpless if you face them, just like “fear run away when you run towards to face them”!!! Try to be happy in small things, Small moments and live your life to the fullest!! Show your past that you are stronger than it!!! Because they are many people who had struggled more than you and are living a happy life, take inspiration from them!!! If you want ask me I will help you!! πŸ™‚

Believe in you, love yourself, trust God and leave the pains and accept positivity!!!! Help yourself… Because

” Even God help those who help themselves ” πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

God- Answer to every question..!!

Did you ever found your brain struggling for the complicated questions of your life?? Spent days and nights finding their answers..!! Or just revolving around to find out what’s right and what’s wrong? You have no idea whom to consult for the correct solution when you crave it. Different humans have different perspectives which confuse us and there is only one who is always right- God!

 

God has all the answers of your questions. He’s the one who directs us to the right path. Yes it’s true he loves you conditionally. He is the supporter of truth. To live this life which is God gifted… One must trust God, love and serve him. He is the greatest power, he is the one who converts our sadness into happiness.

 

When you love him, trust him; you get an extra energy- Positivity!! He accepts you in the way you want I.e. Β friend, parent, lover etc. He supports you, cares for you, love you when you feel alone.

 

When he is yours, he supports you at each step of life. When you feel stuck, he will show you the right path and help you in every possible way. You need to have a right attitude to follow him.

 

Love him because no one can love you like him. Trust him you won’t get better teacher then him.

Experienced… Try it..!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Family… :)

Real happiness is enjoying quality time with your family. Those moments are special when you forget the outside world and are busy in doing fun with each other. Your mind is free from all work load or various problems in this time. When even parents or elder people forget about their age and behave the one among you or player of game.

Those people who are busy in technology should take time out for family to see that family is not boring. This is where you grown up after birth, which gave you special childhood memories. πŸ™‚

And for those who doesnt even have a family. you are not alone spend time with the ones you live. Because Family relations are not because of blood but because of understanding and love, which even freinds have.

Life is beautiful only when you should be able to take the advantage of its beauty!!!! ❀ ❀ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Loving YOURSELF! <3

For every person in this world they are the most important person of their life. But sometimes they forget their self in the busy world.

Today Technology has made our lives very easy. With the advancement in modern lifestyle people automatically adapted it. Now a days at one side people are too busy doing their work, making a way out for their success and on the other side people are spending too much time using advance technology such as facebook, watsapp or enjoying with their friends. They are enjoying their life or working for their future, which every1 must do.. But yet they are lost somewhere in their busy life or around a group of people.

Every human being should love himself as he is the most important for him. In the world a person face many negative and positive feelings, so he should be standing their with him during those phases.

Is it stupidity? It is obvious that a person is always there with him? Then what am i trying to say?

A person should be his own best friend, because there are alot of times in life that they feel alone. They feel that they are nowhere, lost in the complexity of life. No one is yours and you need love in those tough phases.

Human nature is complex. It needs alot of love, support and care to be happy. They like encouragement by others. But what if no one is there to fulfil your these desires? Do you think it is justified to go in a depression?

No. First of all loving ourself is the best thing we can do to us. Life is all ours, we cannot afford to depend on other people to love us or we cannot hurt us if no one loves us.

But how will we love us?

Its too easy to be your own best friend. Take time out for you, talk to yourself, share your feelings, take yourself out. We find it too complex to talk to ourself? We would look foolish!!!!!!

But yes we can write down our feelings as today technology generated a habbit of writing in us (through chats or emails).
Encourage yourself, motivate, award, show care. It might sound illogical but yes its true.

Human beings are for love. If people cant even love themselves, how will they love others? Its really earning a lot of happiness when you are your best friend. It is very essential to have a self analysis when you are busy and avoiding yourself.

TRY IT.. πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

“Loving others is a nice feeling but loving YOURSELF is awesome. “

 

 

LIFE <3

I was wrong, LOVE is not always what people need. Sometimes you have to act maturely over situations, understand other’s expectations and behave accordingly. People should not be stubborn over their feelings that they neglect the natural them. Sometimes what people feel is not true… That is what they feel or wanted to feel.

It is rightly said…

What you think will happen, it doesn’t matter whether it would be positive or negative”.

No one is sad or happy, its just their thinking. As said in regious books…

“A person should be stable, i.e. Equal in both happiness and sadness”.

It depends mostly on us what feelings we want to surround us. A great person is the one who can have a control over his mind and feelings and have a proper sense to know how to behave with people around, without hurting them.

Passion, success, dreams these deep meaning words are so easy to IMAGINE yet so DIFFICULT to live them in real life. The hunger or the desire for them will never leave you.. And yes these desires are to be fulfilled for a healthy future life. Once you avoid them, ignore them.. A lot many times.. They would trigger your mind at the worst phase when you aren’t even capable of achieving them. And yes REGRET is a small word yet more than the word SUFFERING…!

You have one life to live all the desires you have. Its not only about you but also about the people who love you (your Parents etc), they deserve their expectations from you should be fullfilled. You see its not easy. LIFE is an irony having so many different feelings which you can never evenΒ  imagine. To live a happy life one must know to balance these feelings. For these the perfect solution is loving yourself, spending time with yourself, knowing the needs of your body and soul and then working for them. You dont need to ask several people how we should balance our feelings? What will make us happy? etc etc. Just spend time with yourself.. Be your best friend.. You will get to know all the answers and solutions.

LOVE YOURSELF and have the goal to use each and every second of your life besides having short/long term goals. LIVE this and you will see

THE
MAGIC
OF
LIFE ❀ ❀ πŸ™‚

Beautiful LOVE Story <3

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They met ONLINE having many mutual friends!…
Started chatting.. Numbers exchanged! The GIRL was innocent and Honest.. And the BOY was Matured and Confident..! After some days Girl fell in LOVE with him.. that too UNCONDITIONAL!!! She realized that he is only her PRINCE..! But.. she was not valued.. Boy used her to show his ex that he have a line of girls!!! She supported him and love him at each and every point…… and he used her whenever he needed someone for certain reasons!! Girl was hurt.. always.. but she continued supporting him as she don’t want him to left ALONE at any point!!!! She KNEW that one he will realize her value… he will LOVE her too.. She knew that the boy (her PRINCE) isn’t bad.. but the circumstances are! AND………
as it is said .. life is COMPLEX! there came a positive turn in her LIFE.. while faking feelings for her, while showing fake care and love… Somewhere he fell in love with the sweet girl!!!!!! More and more .. each day.. each moment!!!!
HE started treating her as a PRINCESS… And they live happily together… CRAZY IN LOVE .. coz their bond was because of the understanding they had in those bad times!!! and their love increases each SECOND……….

And its right…… LOVE STORIES ARE MADE BY GOD…. you never know who is made for you! and HENCE EVERY LOVE STORY IS DIFFERENT… but has lots and lots of LOVE in COMMON!!! ❀ ❀ πŸ™‚