Invitation for happiness?

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Had a bad past? Faced too many problems in life? Had serious mood swings? Handled yourself with courage? That is appreciable. I appreciate you to face such situations and come out of them. That needs courage and you are brave. congratulations.

 

But, are you not able to trust people easily? Happens when we have seen too much. We see everything with a different perception. We become careful with people and situations. We feel like things cannot be happy again. We have problems in accepting normal things. And after a bad relationship? We normally stay away from opposite sex because we think people are fake. We don’t want same bad situations again.

 

I know relationship is a healthy word. But it is attached to too much boundations and  restrictions which makes commitment or the strings attached between two people heavy. You feel attracted, confess the feelings, talk daily, feel loved and happy. You are on the top of the world. Some days same scenario is followed. You get full attention, day in day out. You share things. But then reality hits you. SLAP. You go busy and can’t give time. Have busy schedule and because of tiredness pay less attention. Love decreases and so talks. Once you felt attended was nowhere. You fight because that is how relationship is? You committed but not giving your 100%. So many things happen and then adjustments and compromises dominate rather than love and happiness.

 

Knowing the reality of relationship lifecycle, you should focus on happiness rather than expectations and commitments. You know how relationships work and then you keep distance from it to prevent yourself from hurting. But dear, you cannot restrict yourself because of the fear of pain. I did take a step forward and I am happy. As I took risk you should also. See what life has got for you. If you are afraid of relationship then don’t be in it, spend time and get the happiness you deserve. Do what you like, but when opportunity comes, make sure you don’t spoil it with your own hands. You are not alone, there are many people like you to accept you as you are.

 

Take risks. Take a step ahead. Maybe that’s and opportunity for you.

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When life gives you invitation to come out of pain and be happy, don’t waste it because of your bad past or insecurities about future. Be careful with your risks, but don’t give up for them. You never know that can shine your life. Don’t loose hopes. Give yourself a second chance. ❤

via Daily Prompt: Invitation

Family… :)

Real happiness is enjoying quality time with your family. Those moments are special when you forget the outside world and are busy in doing fun with each other. Your mind is free from all work load or various problems in this time. When even parents or elder people forget about their age and behave the one among you or player of game.

Those people who are busy in technology should take time out for family to see that family is not boring. This is where you grown up after birth, which gave you special childhood memories. 🙂

And for those who doesnt even have a family. you are not alone spend time with the ones you live. Because Family relations are not because of blood but because of understanding and love, which even freinds have.

Life is beautiful only when you should be able to take the advantage of its beauty!!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂 🙂

Mischievious yet lovely people of life

Those close  mischievous people who take the advantage of our love and tease us…

by not talking, ignoring and blocking!!! because they knew we miss them, we cant live without them, we will be worried and we will go to them… will do whatever they say to convince them!!! 😛 poor we and then that gives them that cruel happiness of Villain type!! and we.. we love them more… calling them idiot! 😉 that’s called a sweet relation!! ❤ ❤ :*

Understanding between relations

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Relations,understandings, friendships can be lost somewhere during tough phases…! Two people may not talk for years!! But the truth is understanding never flies away…its just they stop showing and start believing that other person doesn’t want to continue anymore! Both loose the hope!! Still if you take a deeper look … Trust, care is always there for forever but hidden for many reasons…. which you can see in their eyes!! Realize understanding and Give your such relations a try… Trust me you will find real happiness…. Because the relations based on understanding, sharing, trust, sacrificing, compromising and love is special…. Indeed very very special! ❤

Relationship advice

Maintaining relationships aren’t that easy which is seen from outside! Today many people want their partner with whom they can share their feelings, they also want to feel attended and loved! Its a human nature to feel love and get praised! And for this happiness teenagers get into relationships! become bf and gf! and then spend those lovey dovey moments! at first it seems as expected! full of happiness! but as said.. happiness and sorrows comes one by one! Things goes wrong and then they fight a lot! They wish they would not have come in relationship! but there is no other option! There can be many negative consequences too…. like depression,pain,psychological and emotional changes!!! So think wisely before getting in a relationship… because may be it seems good from outside but a successful relationship have a lot of compromises and sacrifices and if you can avoid it as much as possible and wait for the right moment!! for the Right Person!!!!