Create a happy life :)

small kids

You can see that big and carefree smile of these kids. Remind you of your childhood? You miss your childhood? Yeah I also do. Because it was time we had to just play and learn from surroundings. We had no stress, no responsibilities and no race where we need to prove our self.

You must all be struggling for job or studies or maybe to prove yourself in your field. Some of you might be at a good position but still you are not that happy as you were in childhood. Somewhere we all are working for our dreams or a better life. Some with more dedication, some with fast pace, some with slow pace, some with hard work, some with smart work. We all are doing our part. Even I am. But then sometimes it’s not enough, we need to do more. More and more each day.

What we lack is motivation. Yeah when someone gives us a lecture to work hard and motivates us we are motivated and there work is done. But then we could not stand by it for long. We need more motivation after regular intervals. But then why? Can’t we motivate ourself for the thing which will happen for our benefit only. Stay motivated guys. There are many motivating videos on youtube or read good blogs. People will help you, it’s you who need to keep your distractions and laziness aside to prove people who invoke you or fulfill the needs of your wishes.

Another thing what is a big challenge for us teenagers is that we are involved in lot of emotional ups and downs which is a big distraction. I agree emotional attachments are important and Even I am the person who is attached to so many people who are very important to me. But if those attachments start giving you pain or negativity and keep holding you then you have to take a step for yourself or the person who matter to you. Either leave the attachment or prepare yourself to not let the negativity to destroy you.

I see people having emotional swings, feelingless days and many complex behavior. They teach us a lot but we have to keep a check on them so that they don’t have a bad impact on our career or future. What would be life if you would stay feelingless for a long period like 5 years or full life?

Work on yourself. Take a stand for yourself and fight with negativity. Work hard for your dreams and happy life. Many books say

“There is nothing you can do if you make your mind and work hard in right direction”.

You might be thinking it is not related to the pic at all, but at this point what I ca see in the eyes of those kids are dreams as we had in our childhood. My family members always say “If you study hard then dear your 2 younger sisters will get inspired by you and they will also work for a good and somewhere I believe this is true because our surroundings matter. The difference between IIT, IIM and some private college is that all students in top colleges study hard and get inspired by peers. They have big dreams and work for them whereas in private colleges or not so good colleges you might most of the students don’t work hard, have no dreams and only want the degree. Surroundings matter. If we don’t give up on our dreams, if we don’t work hard to contribute in growth of our country these kids will loose their carefree smile when they come in teenage. If we inspire them, they will also keep on having the happiness inside them.

Moreover if we stand for ourself we will regain the same carefree happiness as we had in our childhood. Work hard, live for your dreams and keep yourself and thousands of happy directly or indirectly by creating a good life for yourself and others.

Advertisements

Welcome 2016!! :)

image

New year gives new hopes, wishes n dreams!!! It gives the hopes to have new wishes…!! Gives the positivity of a beautiful life ahead!! It gives the dare to complete resolutions regarding bad habbits and unachieved goals!! It gives a new desires to improve ourself!! It gives the new directions for our career!! It gives the opportunity to love more and show care towards our dear words!! And at last it gives the happiness to live your life full of craziness with your whole heart!!! Doing what you love to!!!

Happy new year 2016!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Family… :)

Real happiness is enjoying quality time with your family. Those moments are special when you forget the outside world and are busy in doing fun with each other. Your mind is free from all work load or various problems in this time. When even parents or elder people forget about their age and behave the one among you or player of game.

Those people who are busy in technology should take time out for family to see that family is not boring. This is where you grown up after birth, which gave you special childhood memories. 🙂

And for those who doesnt even have a family. you are not alone spend time with the ones you live. Because Family relations are not because of blood but because of understanding and love, which even freinds have.

Life is beautiful only when you should be able to take the advantage of its beauty!!!! ❤ ❤ 🙂 🙂